Showing posts with label Christian life hints. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Christian life hints. Show all posts

July 27, 2022

12 Common things that makes men Look outside in marriage. (Number 5 is important)


Marriage advice
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1. Failing to dress well because you are now married: You dress around like an old woman with wrapper like chicken feathers? That's wrong. Be your husband temptation otherwise he will be tempted outside

2. You use to respect him/her during courtship but now you have seen him all, and you disrespect him as much as you can. That's wrong!

3. Being spiritual and leaving your spouse out if it: this is very dangerous. Carry your partner along in your spiritual pursuit otherwise you will be building and Satan will be using him/her to scatter.

4. Learning alone and leaving your partner out of it: I have written severally on this. Learn together. Make sure your partner knows a little of whatever you know otherwise you will be building and he will be scattering

5. Ceasing to be romantic again because you are now married: many people use romance just to get at their partner and once married, they let it go forgetting that romance is needed more in marriage than it is in relationship

Read More: 10 Mysterious Prayers To Cut Off Spirit Husband And Wife.

6. Loving your own family and leaving your spouse's family out of it. If you do this, you will bring problem to your marriage. Love the both families equally

7. Threatening to leave the Marriage over offences: this would greatly harm your marriage, cripple trust and love

8. Loving your spiritual leaders more than your spouse: don't love your spiritual leaders such as pastors and mentors more than your spouse. This is dangerous

9. Hiding secrets from your spouse: the truth will always come out someday and when it does at the wrong time, there would be issues. Marriage is togetherness. Let your partner be aware of things so that you two could see to it together

10. Failing to appreciate your spouse: appreciation is a powerful tool for marital bliss. on daily basis, appreciate your partner. Appreciate their body, their food, their sense of dress, their skills, their knowledge, etc.

Never wait for your partner to demand for an appreciation before it is given

11. Comparing your spouse with others: this is a very terrible thing to do. Love your partner for who he or she is

12. Recalling past and forgiven offence: once an offence is forgiven, please bury it. Recalling it would cause harm to the marriage.

July 17, 2022

How to control your Sexual urges as a Christian.


How to control your Sexual desires


Sometime ago, a sister approached me with concerns about her sexuality. She wondered why although she is deliberate about her walk with God, she still has a strong urge for sex. When I smiled and told her I had sexual desires too and that these desires were God-given and normal, she was greatly relieved.

When you ask some Christian singles, ‘have you at any point felt like having sex?’ the look on their faces will make you wonder if you’ve just asked an abominable question.

Yes we have the standard ‘flee sexual immorality’ instruction.

There are lots of sexual purity campaigns, seminars on the demonic operations behind illicit sexual affairs, talk shows that tell stories on how destinies are destroyed via fornication.

Too many struggles have arisen out of sexual urges that looks impossible to be tamed.

But the question still remains in the heart of many Christian singles. Can sexual urges be controlled? What happens when my body just desires physical intimacy? How do I handle my raging emotions knowing that God demands sexual purity?

1.Understand that sexual desires are placed inside us by God

Our bodies came with this pleasure package. The longing for sex is normal.

Imagine that nothing moves you. No desire for intimacy. The sight of that sister does not even make you feel anything or even when you are with the person you claim God wants you to marry, there is no fire or desire whatsoever. Your body is as stiff as wood.  If you are like this, who knows, maybe you have been destined to be a eunuch for righteousness sake.

One thing I know is that for every normal human being, our bodies responds to this intimacy because while we were formed, this ‘button’ was strategically placed to provide the sweetness that comes with companionship upon matrimony.

An understanding of this helps us to look forward to marriage. As a man thinks in his heart, so he is.

This is where control starts from. Your thought process. A constant reminder of the place and purpose for which sex was designed will help.

For a person who says, ‘Well, no man can control his sexual urges before marriage!’ be sure that he’ll indulge in it as many times as possible.

For you as a believer who honours and fear God, the question will be, What does God say about sexual intimacy? The answer should fill your thought life.

2. As far as sexual temptation is concerned, it is a fight we must win.

I believe that sex is one of the greatest temptations Christian singles face.

The devil seeks to twist our innate desire for sex for his own purpose. He does this by sensual thoughts triggers that draws us towards the flesh.

There is a battle to fight. Almost everything in our environment awakens us to our sexuality. Our urges are at alert more now than ever.  Every morning as we wake up, our minds are forced in the battle field surrounded by enemies. We constantly win with the sword of the Spirit and prayers. Our communion with God is how we maintain stability.


3.You must train your minds to quickly diffuse sexual thoughts that come into your mind

I use the word train because there may be times when you find yourself indulging in the lustful pictures when you clearly know what the Word says. Even when that happens, never let that discourage you.

Whatever actions that may have resulted from such indulgence should not make you sit in guilt. You have an advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ. There is no condemnation to those in Christ Jesus who work not after the flesh but after the Spirit. Get back into the Word as quickly as possible and learn to cast down every imagination that goes against the knowledge of Christ. Become a guru at pulling every thought to the obedience of Christ.

It comes with practice. The more you practice this, the more sensitive you become when those thoughts attack your mind.

4.Understand how your emotions works

It is foolish to see that your body quickly responds to touch or how you get easily emotionally attached and still allow your emotions to do as it wills.

Don’t ever compare your ability to control sexual temptations with someone else. You see how aroused you quickly become and yet you still visit that sister every time and talk with her far into the night.

You know that watching movies series, many of which now have sex scenes in strategic episodes, drives you faster into pornography and masturbation and yet you sit down with it because another believer says he is not easily affected by scenes like that.

Know how your body works. When you notice that the urges are repeatedly very strong at a particular time, take helpful steps.

A lady once told me that as a single, her ovulation period were the times her urges got to a peak. At those times, she was more sensitive with physical contact

The more you expose yourself to the things that trigger our sensuality, the weaker we become in taking our stand. Take note of those triggers. It’ll save you from falling and rising every time.

Read Also: 6 Strategies for fighting Lust

5.Sensitivity to the Holy Spirit is very important if we must control our sexual desires

The Holy Spirit will teach you what to do each step of the way. We must learn to listen. He is our helper.

There were some mistakes we’d have averted if we had listened. Long before you fell flat into that sexual sin, you might have heard an alarm go off in your head, or heard God’s Word jump right at you.

The Holy Spirit clearly says, ‘No! Don’t go there.’ but then the flesh is also trying to win our attention.

Many times, when we easily yield to the flesh, it is because there is something wrong with our communion. There is too much of exposure from the outside while our inner man is starved of the bread of life.

6.Never have confidence in the flesh

Here’s a sister in the fellowship who just became your friend. You begin to chat every day. As you chat, you can see fire and passion building inside of you gradually.

You sense in your spirit that you need to withdraw but then you think, ‘She is a believer. We pray and share scriptures together. Nothing can happen.’

She keeps visiting and then one evening, you just finished discussing some scriptures when you are both rolling on the floor, fondling each other like starved lions, clothes flung aside.

When you finish, you wonder how that happened even though you were reading scriptures few minutes ago.

Imagine a man at the height of passion and he is muttering, ‘Holy Spirit, help me.’ Which Holy Spirit biko?


Abiodun Aremo

Covenant Family Ministry

July 13, 2022

The kind of Woman every Man wants.

What kind of woman men want

With the increase in marital issues in our world today, suspicion have risen to what men really want in a woman. Below are tested items as to the kind of woman every Man wants.

1. Every man wants a wife who will respect him and give him his honour as the husband of the house.

2. Every man wants a wife who will walk up to him in the morning and say, " Honey, I have kept your water in the bathroom; please go and take your bath".

3. Every man wants a wife who will walk up to him in the morning and say, " My darling husband, I have kept your food on the dinning table; please go and eat your food.

Read More: 11 Serious Questions You Must Ask That Lady Before Marriage.

4. Every man wants a wife who will respect and obey him in the public; even if she wants to disagree with him or quarrel with him, let it be in the bedroom and not in the public.

5. Every man wants a woman who will give him good suggestions and ideas on how to move the family forward.

6. No man wants a wife who will be controlling him and who wants her wish and instructions to be followed all the time. (God forbid).

Read More: How To Deal With Your Exes During Marriage

7. No man wants a nagging Wife.

8. Every man wants a wife who will hug him with a kiss when he returns back from work, and not a wife who will be quarreling with him for coming back from work late.

AS A WIFE, humble yourself and be submissive to your husband for the sake of your marriage and for the sake of your children. 

Above all, for the sake of God

Only mature people will understand what I'm saying and only caring people would share this post.

July 10, 2022

11 Serious questions you must ask that lady before marriage.



Marriage is not a joke! Who you marry determines how your life eventually turns out.  Your rising or crashing in life is determined the day you walk down the aisle with that woman so you can't afford to pick another man's bone. Here are the questions you must ask to see if your marital destiny is going towards the same direction.

1. WHAT IS HER VISION? Your wife must help you fulfil your vision that is why she is called a help-meet. If her dream is to become an international super nude model while your dream is to become a local full time Pastor, you will to do well to end the relationship!

2. IS SHE REALLY BORN AGAIN? Forget about religion. I'm talking about Christ-like behaviour, attitude and character. Some ladies can tie dress modestly, yet the poison in them is deadlier than the serpent's! If her character does not tally with that of a true child of God, you need to do a re-think!

3. IS SHE A VIRGIN OR NOT? You should find out to know what to expect on the wedding night and how to prepare for it.

4. DOES SHE HAVE AN EX? And what led to the break up so she won't repeat the same mistake in your relationship. If she still keeps a close relationship with her EX, she needs to choose between you and him. No rivalry is allowed in any relationship that will last.

5. HAS SHE BEEN SEXUALLY ABUSED/ ASSAULTED/RAPED? Abused women have complicated emotions and relationships. They suffer unexplainable mood swings, depression, paranoia and in extreme cases psychosis and neurosis. They seriously have anger and trust issues. You need to find out so you can know how to relate with her in marriage. Better still, she needs to go for therapy before marriage.

6. DOES SHE HAVE A CHILD IN HER PAST? You must accept her child as your own now that you are getting married to her. If you can't and she insists her child must live with her in marriage, you don't belong together. End the relationship!

7. WHAT DOES MARRIAGE MEAN TO HER? Real marriage means companionship, deep sharing and friendship. If all she wants to do is have sex, cook and bear your children, she is not ready for marriage, both of you should go for counseling.

8. WHAT DOES SUBMISSION TO A HUSBAND MEANS TO HER? A wife must submit to her husband as the head in marriage. That is what the Holy Book says. If she is a feminist and you hate feminism with passionate hatred, you don't belong together, end the relationship!

9. DOES SHE BELIEVE IN WORKING AFTER MARRIAGE OR SHE WANTS TO BE A FULL TIME HOUSE WIFE? Iron this out so you won't be shocked if she resigned from her job after her first pregnancy and refuse to do anything else aside cooking and bearing children.

10. WILL ANY OF HER FAMILY MEMBERS BE LIVING WITH YOU AFTER MARRIAGE? Talk. Find out if you can cope with her siblings or parents living with you immediately after wedding. If you honestly can't, talk about it!

11. WHAT IS HER VIEW ABOUT MONEY? Some women believe money is meant to be spent while some believed it is to be saved. A lot of others believe in accumulating liabilities. Though the right way to handle money is earn, save, invest and give. Spending should follow budget. What is your own way of handling money? Make sure your view on money tallies lest you end up in the divorce court few years after marriage.

These and more are the serious questions you should ask your partner before saying "I DO". Amos 3:3 is a proof of God's will. 

If you claim you heard God and both of you are not ending the same direction, you need to pray again. God's will is not an excuse to walk in foolishness.

Yes, you must marry God's will for your life and your God's will must give you peace. If you are scared, troubled and your relationship is going no where to happen, end it before it ends you. 

May the Lord grant you understanding. Thanks for reading. God bless you.

Check my previous posts about Relationships and Christian life hints.

July 09, 2022

Dealing with your past Lovers || Types of Exes (Part 2)

 Dealing with your past Lovers during marriage (Part 2)

Dealing with your Exes
In our last post we talked about dealing with your past Lovers when you're married. We did an introduction on the topic.

In this post I will be elaborating on the types of Exes you might encounter during your married life.

Read More: Dealing with Your Exes during marriage (Introduction)



There are some exes that are not actually ex because the breakup was not defined. No one told the other person that he/she is no longer interested in the relationship. Maybe some sort of distance or a break in communication could make both of them assume they are no longer together. 

Any married person that has this type of ex ought to find ways to tidy things up (especially if the relationship is very recent) because such exes never really disappear for good. There is high possibility that the ex will just pop out from the blues. Please find a way to officially declare that you're no longer Interested, else, you may be sitting on a time bomb. 

There are few men who hide their marriage from social media because of the ex they never broke up with. 

Dear singles, if you're breaking up any relationship, please speak in clear terms, don't use body language, don't disguise, don't assume anything. 

It is another form of wickedness to just keep quiet and move on without telling the other person. The person you have been dating deserves to know that you're no longer interested. 

Some of the single guys who tell ladies "I don't want anyone to know about us" have exes they didn't break up with. 

I am also aware of some tricky people who would never come out plain for selfish reasons. I used to be like that too. 

Such guys will withdraw all commitment from a relationship without categorically spelling it out to the lady that they are no longer interested. It may be that they have a current "sweet" distraction, so they'll withdraw from their girlfriend to buy themselves time to explore that distraction. By the time they're done (let say they've been away for months), they'll  then go back to the same girl they have abandoned and send her a message like "You just forgot me"...and lies will roll on lies to get their way back so that the relationship will continue where it stopped. 

Some other guys don't announce break up because they want to keep the ex on standby, like spare tire. Anytime the main girlfriend disappoints, they call her to the rescue, especially when there's Sexual urge. 

Anyways, I don't blame such guys, it's the ladies that allow such kind thing I blame. They are the ones agreeing to be fooled.

Not that some ladies too are innocent, some of them have long moved on, but they are into friends with benefits with their ex because he's their surest bet for urgent financial rescue. They will just go, use sex as bait to collect money. They feel "After all, it's the same body I used to give him for free,".

If you have an ex you didn't break up with, whether you're married or single, go and do the right thing now. Don't wait until the bomb explodes. 


This is the type of ex that one did not have a soft landing with, probably because the breakup came as a shock and the ex feels he/she has offered too much to be dumped just like that. 

It is one of the most dangerous types of ex. Anyone who has this type of ex already has battles to fight. Such ex may graduate from attacking physically to launching spiritual attacks. 

I have a scar on my left hand that I'm still carrying about till today. It was my ex that stabbed me with broken bottle. She aimed for my chest, just that I got lucky and it landed on my upper arm. Though this particular ex that stabbed me was even the one that dumped me. I begged to come back, she refused. Only for her to return and fight months after finding out that I got into another relationship. I couldn't understand her anger. Like, she doesn't want to marry me and I must not marry another person? Well, it's all in the past now. 

My advice for people who have this type of ex is to keep reasonable distance from them while they guide their territory. 

Read More: 10 Mysterious Prayers To Cut Off Spirit Husband And Wife.


This happens when two people who were truly in love had to break up because of circumstances beyond them. The circumstances of the breakup might have been foggy and impersonal, like maybe it was a right-person-wrong-time type of thing, or it could be as a result of genotype mismatch, refusal of family to approve the relationship and so on. The break up is usually painful. 

Although, this type of relationship usually end on a good note, since the break up is not the fault of any of the duo but both of them must still steer clear from each other. Staying away from such ex does not mean he/she is your enemy, it is not malice, you don't hate the person either.

 The reason you have to stay away is because there is an emotional attachment. You can't keep someone you're emotionally attached to around you, especially when you're already in another relationship or married. If you do this, it will likely end in "friends with benefits" where you always go back to have sex and do other other intimate things with that person. And each time this happens, you'll feel used, because you already know you've reached a dead end. 

Some ladies who have issues of genotype incompatibility, and as a result, have broken up with their partner may keep turning down the advances of other men.

I'm going to tell you the truth ladies, the fastest way to heal is to cut every ties with that person. Accept the reality and move on. Since you can't change the situation, then embrace the hard truth and move on! Put an end to all forms of communication with that person. I understand that it is a difficult path, your fears are valid but sometimes, the hard way is the only way. 

This is why young ones who are starting a new relationship should make important findings before emotions set in.

When I become the president I will make it compulsory for young people planning to go into relationship to introduce themselves like this on the first date "Hello, my name is John and my genotype is AA. What about you?".


Here, the man and the lady behaves like Tom and Jerry. They keep breaking up and making up. They fight today, separate and swear never to see each other again. Just give them few months and they are back together and the cycle continues most common among young people.

The advanced and most dangerous form of this type of relationship is when both parties have ended the relationship and have started a new relationship with another person, or even married, but somehow, they keep sneaking back to that ex. 

There are many married people (especially men) in this situation. Somehow, they keep returning to the person they were dating when they were still single. The funny thing is that even if they are asked to choose between their spouse and ex, they will still choose their spouse o. Very confused somebody.

Anyone who has this type of ex is on highway to hell because it can never end well. Even God is not happy with such person. The Bible likened such people to dogs and called them fools. 


II Peter 2:22 also talks about it. 

My advise for anyone in this mess is total abstinence from that ex. As in, break EVERY communication link. Flee from that person. Inform your partner about your struggles with that ex and both of you should prayerfully and maturely handle the situation.

Delay is very dangerous, it is either you break up completely from that ex or the ex breaks your marriage/relationship. The choice is yours.

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This type of ex is most peculiar to men, and they are usually very ruthless.  Although the relationship is no longer existing, the ex still controls his past lover. It could be as bad as not allowing the lady to enter into a new relationship or dictating what happens in the new relationship, or the ex's marriage. 

While most of the domineering exes have something they are using to blackmail their past lover, there are this few other ones that have nothing on their past lover, they are just mad.

Ladies who are victims of such ex are usually secretive. They don't let their current partner into the truth. They sneak to give the ex whatever he wants, whenever he wants, even sex!

If the current lover gets suspicious and asks for clarification, they say things like "You can't understand". They may even dump him if he insists on knowing what is going on. 

I had a personal experience when I was in higher institution. I met this lady that I liked and she liked me too but she was so afraid of her ex. There was a day I told her to put a call through and I was listening to the conversation between her and her ex. 

The guy told the lady that no one can have her except him. The lady insisted that she had moved on but the ex bros said that one is in her pocket. That she's not the one to tell him when she'll move on. The man told the lady that even if any man had paid her pride price, she should go and return the money to the man because he is the one who is in charge of her life. The conversation was long and scary, and I was just a stubborn young boy. 

The most shocking part was that this same man had his wedding with another lady coming up in few months. His wedding invitation was already going round town as of when he was threatening another innocent girl. I couldn't understand that kind of love, he has gone to marry another lady but still insisting that he must not find his ex with another man.

The man knew I was in the picture, during the call, he was like "So it's because of John you're telling me rubbish, you think I don't know? I will finish him, just wait and see". He threatened to kill me and he attempted. But once again, I narrowly escaped, but not without multiple scars.

Someone told me few days ago that he got a job for his fiancee but her ex told her not to accept the job and she didn't. Just imagine! 

In rare cases, a lady can become the domineering ex. It can be a case of blackmail. It can also be that the man is the one who puts himself in that bondage. For instance, if he is the one who keeps going back to her, let's say, because she has matchless sexual prowess and the man cannot say no to the sex. The sex is just too good and he'll do anything to have it.

Some teenage girls (some in their early twenties) are the ones using sex to control people's husbands and fathers. They dictate what happens in the man's home. They tell him what to do and what not to do. They tell him how to treat his wife and children. They are in charge. How ridiculous! 

If you have a domineering ex, my advice for you is to plan with your current partner, set the ex up (like get a voice recording of the ex where he or she is issuing threats or even video) and report the case to the police station.

If it is a case of blackmail, discuss with your current partner, tell him/her the whole truth. Allow your current lover to know what your ex has on you. Both of you should put heads together and reason how to get your freedom. Only that truth will liberate you. You can't continue to live like a puppet. You deserve freedom. 

If you have a domineering ex and you leave it untreated, you will be endangering your life and that of your current lover. Don't underestimate a domineering ex. Obsession is bad. He can waste you, and and run away or even commit suicide. They behave like psychopaths. Please watch your back. 


This is probably the most complicated ex that anyone could possibly encounter. This ex hasn’t moved on, they are still emotionally attached to you, (and maybe the feeling is even mutual).

If you have this kind of ex, you must totally abstain from him/her. Don't keep this kind of ex around in the name of being mature or staying woke. You'll definitely fall into fornication/adultery if you loiter around this kind of ex. 

Keeping contact with the still-in-love ex will not allow you find fulfilment in your current partner. It is a total distraction. Please look away.


For many young men in relationship, sex is for fun. Unfortunately, it's beyond that for most ladies. They are usually committed to men they had sex with. Except for few ladies who are not living in a brothel but their sexual life is not better than that of a prostitute. 

The ideal thing is to stay away from any ex you had sex with. This type of ex is not your enemy but shouldn't be kept as a friend. If you must keep contact with such ex, it should be once in a blue moon (with the consent of your current partner), and should be with a purpose, not just a chit-chat. 


Although there were some emotional attachment, there was no sexual intercourse. 

There are ladies who do not even regard such ex as ex. The only way you become their ex is if there was sex. More reason some guys want to have sex by all means. 


This ex is usually the ideal ex. Things between you ended nicely. There were no fireworks to celebrate your splitting up, but there was no bad blood, either. You’re not friends, but you’re not enemies. You probably don’t talk all that much but you know that if you did, you’d be on good terms and be kind to one another.

The spark is gone, but you do not harbor resentment for them, and they do not hate you. Your situation is very mature. 

Well, the situation looks good but there's still no need being close to any kind of ex. Ex is ex, your past is gone. 

How to deal with Your Exes during marriage || Must read

 Dealing with your past Lovers when you're married.

How to deal with my past Lovers


When young people plan to settle down, most of them usually plan to be totally faithful to their spouse. Unfortunately, there are people that are so attached to their ex lovers that they find it difficult to completely break away. Somehow, they keep falling back into the arms of their ex. 

There are women that have done more intimate things with their ex than they have done with their husbands. Their exes have strong grip on them, they obey him, probably because of those deep things they've shared in the past. 

Some men wouldn't have had any record of infidelity, but their exes won't allow  them to be great. 

When it comes to matter of past lovers, the devil you know is NOT better than the angel you don't know. What  I am trying to say is that, generally, it is easier for any married person to fall into adultery with an ex than an entirely new person. It takes a lot of process to flirt with a new person in most cases, but you see an ex, one must be very careful, else, you would fall before you realise anything. That is why Satan loves to tempt people with their ex. 


Some have fallen into adultery with their ex because of being woke. They'll say "My ex is not my enemy, why should I not be close to him/her?"

Well, it's true, your ex is not your enemy but boundary must be well defined. If you can't define the boundary, you better make your ex your enemy. Usually, people who smell what they intend not to eat end up eating it. 

Things have gone so bad lately, many homes have suffered attack, even break up, all because of interference of exes. There are men that have totally abandoned their wives and returned to their ex. Some women are still having secret affair with their ex. Some have given the pregnancy that belongs to an ex to their husband. That explains the recent trend of DNA tests resulting in fathers not being the biological father of their supposed kids. 


Read More: If You Want To Be A Good Woman, Wife And Mother, Emulate This Steps.

Let me also quickly add this for the singles, exes can be very dangerous. The more your ex, the more complications you're piling up for yourself and whomever you're marrying. If your peace matters to you,  as much as possible, minimise your ex, stop jumping from one lover to another, for the sake of your future partner and your unborn kids. 

In rare cases, we have seen where ex becomes a benefactor. But I tell you sincerely, you shouldn't be banking on keeping your ex because of getting favours from him/her. 

In the next part of this series, we'll discuss the types of exes and how to relate with them. 

Don't miss this interesting series........ See you in part 2.

November 13, 2021



Sexy picture
It's no news now that the world is now ravaging in Sin and the media not making things right have drawn people thinking that virginity isn't an achievement or a worthy endeavour. Some people have also made statements about keeping oneself a Virgin difficult. We've coined 10 reasons keeping your Virginity might be difficult. With this reasons you can find a way to change your perspective.

1. You believe it is difficult that is why it is. The Bible says, "As he thinketh in his heart, so is he..."

2. You move with friends who do not value virginity and makes you look like you have very serious problems. Change your friends. Psalm 1. "A companion of fools shall be DESTROYED".

3. Your smart phone is making it difficult because you spend all your time watching romantic movies, pornography and anything dirty instead of studying the word, watch godly movies and read goodly ebooks.

4. You engage in sexy, flirty, dirty chats.

Read Also: If You Want To Be A Good Woman, Wife And Mother, Emulate This Steps.

5. You are highly sensual instead of "Walking in the Spirit and not fulfilling the lust of the flesh". (Galatians 5).

6. You are engaged to a guy/lady who talked dirty and seduce you all the time. End all relationship with sinful partners (Psalm 1).

7. You are of marriageable age and your hormones are raging like fire. Read my ebooks" Overcoming Marital Delay" and " How To Attract Your Perfect Soul Mate". They will change your story. Available at very affordable price. Inbox me to get your copies.

8. You have courted for a long time and your body is crying for sex. Get married.

9. You wear sexy clothes all the time. They will make you feel sexy -horny! Stop wearing clothes that draw attention to your sexual side.

Read Also: How To Know God's Will For Marriage

10. You have a spiritual spouse. People who have sex in the dream all the time battles whoredom, masturbation, and the crazy urge for premarital sex.

Alright. There you go my brothers and sisters. Go work on those points and have a sexually pure single life. Nothing is difficult. It is all in our mind set. Once you work on your mind set brother, sister! Getting married as a virgin becomes easy. Love you big.