Dealing with your past Lovers when you're married.

DEALING WITH YOUR PAST LOVERS (EXES). 

When young people plan to settle down, most of them usually plan to be totally faithful to their spouse. Unfortunately, there are people that are so attached to their ex lovers that they find it difficult to completely break away. Somehow, they keep falling back into the arms of their ex. 

There are women that have done more intimate things with their ex than they have done with their husbands. Their exes have strong grip on them, they obey him, probably because of those deep things they've shared in the past. 

Some men wouldn't have had any record of infidelity, but their exes won't allow  them to be great. 

When it comes to matter of past lovers, the devil you know is NOT better than the angel you don't know. What  I am trying to say is that, generally, it is easier for any married person to fall into adultery with an ex than an entirely new person. It takes a lot of process to flirt with a new person in most cases, but you see an ex, one must be very careful, else, you would fall before you realise anything. That is why Satan loves to tempt people with their ex. 

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Some have fallen into adultery with their ex because of being woke. They'll say "My ex is not my enemy, why should I not be close to him/her?"

Well, it's true, your ex is not your enemy but boundary must be well defined. If you can't define the boundary, you better make your ex your enemy. Usually, people who smell what they intend not to eat end up eating it. 

Things have gone so bad lately, many homes have suffered attack, even break up, all because of interference of exes. There are men that have totally abandoned their wives and returned to their ex. Some women are still having secret affair with their ex. Some have given the pregnancy that belongs to an ex to their husband. That explains the recent trend of DNA tests resulting in fathers not being the biological father of their supposed kids. 

Let me establish this: CHEATING WITH AN EX DOES NOT START FROM THE POINT YOU HAVE SEX WITH HIM/HER. CHEATING STARTS FROM THE POINT YOU BEGIN TO CONTACT YOUR EX OR HAVE ANY KIND OF DEAL WITH YOUR EX WITHOUT THE KNOWLEDGE AND APPROVAL OF YOUR CURRENT PARTNER. 

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Let me also quickly add this for the singles, exes can be very dangerous. The more your ex, the more complications you're piling up for yourself and whomever you're marrying. If your peace matters to you,  as much as possible, minimise your ex, stop jumping from one lover to another, for the sake of your future partner and your unborn kids. 

In rare cases, we have seen where ex becomes a benefactor. But I tell you sincerely, you shouldn't be banking on keeping your ex because of getting favours from him/her. 

In the next part of this series, we'll discuss the types of exes and how to relate with them. 

Don't miss this interesting series........ See you in part 2.

 Facts you need to know about Apostle Joshua Selman, Number 10 will Surprise you.

23 facts about Apostle Joshua Selman Nimmak.

 1.Apostle Joshua Selman is the second of four children. 

2. He’s a graduate of Ahmadu Bello University where he studied chemical engineering.

3. He is from Jos, Nigeria.

4. He gave his life to Christ at a very young age at one of his school’s fellowships.

5. He attended Benny Hinn school of ministry.

6. Apostle Joshua Selman has a very glaring and contagious love for God which he never tries to hide.

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7. He believes very much in intimacy with God and always says that everything believers do should be from the strength of their secret place with God.

8. Apostle Joshua Selman lives a modest lifestyle. Most of the events in his life are private and unannounced. He is more interested in focusing on God, his goals and making impact than he is about publicizing these things.

9. Apostle Joshua Selman is said to have been a giver since he was little. When he was in a boarding school, everytime he was given his allowance to take back to school, he would share more than half of it amongst his siblings, and take whatever was left to school. Little wonder his life today is one that keeps giving.

10. Contrary to what you may have believed, he doesn’t eat only spiritual food. He eats physical food too. In fact, he loves ice cream and is vocal about it.

11. Growing up, Apostle Joshua Selman had always known he was a different child. His mum has been heard saying many times that when other children went out to play or visit friends, young Selman would be in a small room behind his father’s house reading the Bible and praying for hours.

12. Apostle Joshua Selman once shared that when he was in secondary school, he was made the time prefect in JSS2 and had the responsibility of waking up early. He said in those days, the Holy Spirit would wake him up at about 5am every morning so he could fulfil his duty and ring the bell. 

13. He is an amazing singer. Apostle Joshua Selman is not just a teacher. He is a great singer too. One of the things that many people have said they love about him is his voice when he sings. Many times, while preaching, he uses songs to buttress the message and that singular act ministers to many.

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14. Apostle Joshua Selman is an ardent believer of balance and moderacy. He is not extreme on anything. He believes that school of thoughts and beliefs should be balanced and not bias or extreme.

15. Apostle Selman is an ardent believer of process, preparation and seasons. He believes that men are made in their times of refining and process and this preparation is indispensable for sustainable success.

16. Apostle Selman is very humble and this is the testimony of everyone who has met him. Regardless of his obvious results and feats, he remains broken before God and meek before men. He is never seen struggling for the spotlight.

17. Apostle Selman is a sincere and deep lover of people. His actions towards and for people always shows his compassion and love for them.

18. Apostle Joshua Selman loves and is very passionate about the Body of Christ. He believes in oneness in the body and that we exist to complement each other.

19. Apostle Selman loves children and always makes them feel noticed and special. Just like our Lord Jesus did, he welcomes children into his bossom at all times

20. Apostle Joshua Selman is passionate about personal development and growth. He believes that people should never see graduation from any institution of any sort as a reason to stop learning. He believes in studying and reading wide and practices this in his own life by studying many books and learning from different platforms.

21. Apostle Joshua Selman has a very large library. Many times in his messages, he has said that he would gladly let go of any of his possessions but he’ll not be happy to let go of the books he possesses particularly the ones that carry his revelations from God.

22. Apostle Joshua Selman is nocturnal. He believes in using the night time to pray and study and he practices it. He has shared that most days, (when he is not ministering), he only gets to sleep at 5am.

23. Apostle is not just spiritual. He is Savvy and Streetwise. Try having a conversation with him on contemporary topics and you’d be amazed at how trendy, savvy and streetwise he his. Add his sense of humor to this and you have someone you’d spend hours with and lose track of time.

Co-founder of SA Satanic Church resigns, now believes in Christ after Christians 'show him what unconditional love is' and he encounters a visitation from the Lord Jesus Christ!

Riaan Swiegelaar, co-founder of the South African Satanic Church (SASC), has resigned from his post as presiding priest of the controversial church on 30 May 2022. He also resigned from the church council, as well as dissolved his membership with the organization.

In a live video broadcast on Facebook, Swiegelaar said, “To be very honest, I initially thought I’d quietly slip out the backdoor and I didn’t think people would be so interested in why I do what I do.” "

He said he engaged in Satanism because it resonated with him at the time, and because he was “very sad and very broken, without realising it”. "I think a lot of people resonate at Satanism when they come from a very broken place." "

"I have met thousands of Satanists over the past year and they are extremely hurt and broken—that's the one thing they all have in common," Swiegelaar added.

He burst into tears and added, "To this day, there have only been four Christians in my entire life who have shown me what unconditional love is. "

Adele Frey, one of the people who supported him, messaged him, saying she just did a simple thing by showing him love. "People, showing love for others is everything. You showed me the love of Christ, I saw it in you".

He adds that Frey showed him unconditional love at a time when he was an "ugly monster", and when he adopted Christians who do that. "You showed me unconditional love. "

In mid-May, Swiegelaar conducted his last interview as a member of the SASC on the CapeTalk radio station, not knowing it would be his last radio interview as an oldie.

Swigelaar said in the interview that he does not believe that Jesus Christ exists. A lady from the radio team walked up to him after the interview and hugged him in a way he had never been hugged before.

A week later, he saw on WhatsApp that the woman is a Christian. "I never had a Christian do that. I have never experienced a Christian show so much love towards a self knowing satanist. "

"And it stayed with me, though. "

A week later, when Swiegelaar had to perform a ritual to see "what the next phase is to gain more influence and power", he did the ritual and during the ritual Jesus appeared before him.

He said, "If you are Jesus, you have to prove it. "Dizzy says he is overflowing with the most beautiful love and energy. “And I recognized it right away, like the woman at the radio station pointed it out to me. "

"This is how I recognized the love of Christ. "

Dizzy expands more about his experience in the live Facebook video that's over 30 minutes long.

Impostor said he would not answer queries from the media, and that the video is his testimony.

A press release by the SASC, whose member number according to Swiegelaar is growing by the day, reads: "We, as the SASC Council, want to thank Swiegalaar for his contribution, both as the pastor and the co-founder of the SA Satanic Church. We wish him success in all his future endeavors. "

 Download new Album "I was loved" by Davy Flowers

Davy Flowers, a worship leader and singer from Dallas, is commemorating the triumph of her full-length debut, I Was Loved, as well as the record-breaking "The Kingdom Tour," which is presently ranked as one of Pollstar's Live 75 best outings, this week.

I Was Loved, Flowers' eagerly awaited The Worship Initiative debut, was produced by Shane Barnard (Shane & Shane) and featured two tracks that were produced by Bryan Fowler (TobyMac). I Was Loved is a worshipful pop album that radiates personal joy. It features songwriting contributions from people like Mia Fieldes, Sarah Reeves, and Lindy Conant, among others. by the offering of Christ, who alone is deserving of our unwavering adoration and utter submission.

TRACK LISTING

1. You

2. To The Water (feat. John Marc Kohl)

3. Only One

4. Nothing Left To Say

5. Take All The World

6. Be Near To Me

7. I Was Loved

8. The Place Where I Belong

9. The Kind Of God You Are

10. Undivided Heart

11. Oh But God

12. Never Stop

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Ada Ehi I will sing Refreshed

I Will Sing ~ Refreshed 

Production Credit

Audio Production @babykelo 

Bass @marvin_masok 

Mix Mastering @mikkymejoses 

Vocal @justchrisbright @ibkmusic Esther Gold, Oluchi, Tienna

Visuals

Director BigSam

Editor & Colorist BigSam

Special appearances @mayoks_michael Oluchi @babykelo

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 See Loved up pictures of Mercy Chinwo and Husband engagement pictures.

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 Download and Watch Official YouTube video - GUC Omemma.

Minister GUC have released the official video of one his songs in his new Album To Yahweh's delight. One of song in Minister GUC Album that has it's official YouTube video Released is Omemma.

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